The Psychology of Your Success
You've thought about it for a long time. You've studied
your options. You've talked to others that have done it.
You're going to do it, too. You are ready to take the
plunge. You are going to start your own business.
Success in your
own business consists of many elements. A concept, a business
plan, careful strategizing, research and goal setting.
But, above all,
the success or failure of your business
hinges on your ability and willingness to explore, realize and
improve on the Psychology of You.
What is the
Psychology of You? Simply put, it's who you are, what you
believe and what you do.
Mastering the
Psychology of You (POY) lies in your willingness to commit to
yourself, your dreams and your inherent right to be successful.
It has nothing to do with where you come from or what you've
achieved so far.
The first step
toward mastery is to take an inventory of yourself. You MUST be
honest with yourself. In a notebook, answer (honestly!) the
following questions -
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What do I believe to be my greatest strengths?
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What do I believe to be my greatest weaknesses?
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What do I really want to achieve in my business?
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What limits do I place on myself?
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What obstacles do I allow to hamper my success?
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What am I afraid of?
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What is the best thing that would happen if I went
all out
toward my goals?
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What is the worst thing?
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What steps can I take each day to move toward where
I want to be?
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Do I take responsibility for where I am in all
aspects of my life?
Once these questions have been answered (honestly!) you are
ready to develop a Course of Action (COA) for moving to where
you want to be. To develop this COA, look carefully at your
answers. Whatever your answers are, they are okay. There is
nothing wrong with them
(if you want to stay where you are.)
If you are ready
to move forward, imagine yourself answering each question with
the opposite or more positive degree of what you have
written.
For instance,
for limits you may have written "I don't believe I can earn
more than $30,000 per year."
Imagine instead
that your answer is "I don't believe I can
earn LESS than $300,000 per year." Feel the power behind the
second answer. Just reading it is empowering! Over time, you
WILL begin to believe it, even if you don't now.
Do this with
each of the answers that you have written.
The next step is
to write down what actions you can (and will) take to move
yourself in the direction of the second answer that you have
listed for each question.
Be a little
risky. Push yourself beyond the norm and past your comfort
zone. Anyone who has ever experienced great success in anything
will tell you that you must get out of your comfort zone to
truly achieve what you want.
Set a time limit
for achieving what you want.
The last step is
often the most difficult and where many people lose sight of
their vision. You MUST put your COA into play. It's time to
take action. Every day, determine what you must do to move
toward changing each original answer to the desired
answer.
Each night,
before you go to bed, read the second set of
answers that you have listed. Ignore those first answers
completely. They no longer have a place in your life.
As you do this
on a daily basis you WILL begin propelling
yourself toward your goal. You will be amazed. You will begin
saying and doing things that you never dreamed you could. You
will experience a strong shift in your attitude. Things will
begin to come easier to you. It may not seem like it at first,
but be patient. Stick with it! Strong, unseen forces are at
work on your behalf. The potential of your subconscious mind is
astounding.
As time
progresses, you will become much clearer on what you truly
want, what you are willing to sacrifice and do to achieve it
and what you are not willing to accept in your life. Your
feelings of self-worth, self-confidence and self-esteem will
soar to new heights. You realize that nothing can stop you from
success!
On occasion,
when an old, limiting behavior pops up, you will know just how
to turn it around and take the action necessary to move beyond
it.
You will be able
to do this because you know who you are,
you know where you are going and you know what it takes to get
you there.
Congratulations!
You have mastered the Psychology of You!
Jackie
Ulmer has worked from home for over fifteen years,
coaching and training thousands on the secrets to success
in a home business. Contact her through her website
at http://www.streetsmartwealth.com
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